I'm very proud of Cameron

I realized last night that Cameron really is exceptional. Although he is a typical teen who appears to be wrapped up with his own social life most of the time. He does pay attention to what's happening and is quick to step up beyond his role to take care of those he loves. I am very proud.

My moment of realization came during dinner last night. We had dinner at a restaurant with just the boys. Tara went with her Grandma. We had some shopping to do in Kalamazoo so we stopped at a local restaurant to eat. It was a regular evening out. We sat at our table and Triston announced that he needed to use the restroom. Normally we go with Triston and Tara to the bathroom but Terry opted out this time since Triston feels as if he needs more independence as he gets older. Up until a year ago, I would make Triston go with me to the ladies room and talk about an argument. Triston hated it and was so embarrassed.

I feel stupid for not seeing what Cameron saw. My back was towards the bathroom but still that's not an excuse. As a parent, I feel as if we should always be on guard and protective. Anyways, Cameron obviously saw something that made him uncomfortable and was quick to say, "Ok, whose going in to check on Triston?" I am like "why, what's wrong?" Terry says "go check on him" I'm like "why" (again and feeling like I missed something). Obviously, I shouldn't go into the men's room unless its an emergency. Cameron jumped up at that moment and said "Fine, I will go" and he was gone in a flash. Terry and I both sat there looking at each other. Then Terry explained to me that as soon as Triston entered the restroom door, two teenage boys followed him in there. I missed the whole thing but definately seen the concern in Cameron's face and then Terry's but everything worked out fine. Cameron didn't have to reinjure his shoulder in any defensive movements.

I am having a very proud moment right now.